Thursday, December 31, 2015

The Last Day of the Year

Last year I only found it in me to get one measly posting together. I'd say it was more of a drive-by-posting than anything else, as I only showed up to promise I'd be back soon :P. I seem to have had my pants on fire as 2015 is drawing to a close and I don't know when I'll be back yet. I have to admit that I'm only posting something now (with less than two hours remaining of this year) because I felt it would be a pity to not do so, when I've posted something every other year I've had this blog.

So if I have to try and find something meaningful to say in my fluff piece, I would like to wish everybody a happy transition into 2016 :).

*Cue confetti and streamers*


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    1. I am going to do the civilized and mature thing and reply to your comment, instead of simply deleting it and hoping you get the hint.

      I have requested in the past that you stop visiting my blog and stop commenting, but you didn't respect my no and as you're still here, you obviously kept coming back. I realise it might seem a bit confusing that at times I did reply to your comments, but I felt I had no choice as you wouldn't respect my wishes.

      I wish you nothing but the best, but I sincerely hope that you will respect my wishes and respect my boundaries and let me live my life. I'll be 30 in a few years, it's time you let me live my life. You once expressed that you sincerely cared for me and were trying to help, if you do, please let me move on with my life. I'm a different person now and I would like to continue to grow. If you care for what's best for me, you will let me do that in peace.

      All the best wishes to you.

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    1. If you truly cared for me, you would respect me setting a clear boundary by stating I do not wish to hear from you. I'm sorry to hear you don't know how to listen to me, then nor now.

      I can't stop you from visiting my blog, but please know that I will delete any of your comments in the future.

      You can negate my feelings all you want, come up with any excuses, not listen to what I'm saying, say that I'm overreacting. You are free to do anything you wish. It has nothing to do with anger. I'm not angry at you. I'm just sad that you don't listen to me when I say: Please leave me alone.

      I will leave this reply up for you to see. But as I said, any comments from now on I will delete.

    2. I'm sorry to hear you still carry a lot of pain from what happened in the past. I am genuinely sorry that I seem to have hurt you. I never intended to and I'm not sure you'll believe me when I say (after so strongly stating how you think of me) that I never did anything to intentionally hurt you or cause you grief. I was a very emotionally disturbed young woman back then, I was very bluntly put, a hot mess. I don't remember much from back then, and that should be an indicator of how I was doing at the time. Many years have passed and I have put those years and that period of my life behind me. I have forgiven others for mistreating me and I have forgiven myself for not knowing better or being able to do better. I hope you can forgive me too and also put it behind you.

      I don't have any anger towards you, I don't think badly of you as a person. The only issue I have is that I have requested that you leave me alone and let me move on with my life but you didn't listen to me, nor my request. You kept returning and kept reaching out to me, as if to check whether I had changed my mind yet. I wasn't very good at having or reinforcing boundaries in the past, so if I ever acted in a hostile or unkind manner trying to get you to understand you were crossing one by not listening to me: I apologise.

      I hope nothing but good things for you. I hope you get to experience a lot of laughter and joy and that you get many, many good things, people and experiences coming your way.

      I hope we can part on good terms, as it is the kind and civilized thing to do.

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